Parents Zone

Training Young Minds: Brain Training Games

Written by: Ms. Carmen Leung, part-time lecturer for Bachelor of Education in OUHK DHA is merely a nutrient that supports brain development in children, but to make children smarter, their brains need proper exercise. Here are some brain-training games that are perfect for children aged 2 to those in primary school! 1. Maze and Spot-the-Difference ActivitiesAlthough mazes and spot-the-difference games were popular when we were young, they remain valuable tools for children today. These brain-training activities come in various forms; any image-based game that requires children to observe and concentrate to complete tasks qualifies as a brain exercise. For instance, are you familiar with “Where’s Wally?”—one of the most popular brain games worldwide? In fact, brain

Should Parents Show Love to Their Children?

Written by: Dr. Tik Chi-yuen, Director of Hong Kong Institute of Family Education All parents love their children, but many of us tend to keep this love in our hearts, rarely expressing it openly. Chinese culture, in particular, is known for its reserved approach to emotional expression. This is especially true for fathers, who often assume that their thoughts and feelings are understood without the need for explicit communication. Some fathers even believe that expressing love to their children compromises their dignity and authority as a parent. However, such thinking is a grave mistake. Emotional connections between people need to be explicitly expressed in various ways to foster close relationships. Compared to Chinese parents, parents in

Oral Muscle Development Training: Laying the Foundation for Language Skills

Written by: Speech Therapist Ms Jenny T. Y. Kwok   Every child’s language ability is different. Some children can speak various words by the age of one and form sentences by two, communicating effectively with others. However, some children develop their language skills more slowly. In fact, the development of oral muscles has a profound impact on both eating and language abilities. Parents can engage in various small games to train their children’s oral muscles, laying a solid foundation for their language development. Oral muscles include the muscles of the cheeks, lips, tongue, and jaw, which develop and improve with age and eating experiences. The strength, control, flexibility, and coordination of these muscles are crucial factors

Appreciating Children’s Progress from Their Own Baseline

Written by: Counseling Psychologist, Shelly Mok   There is a 3-year-old girl who, when she first started play therapy, would throw tantrums at home at least 3 to 4 times a day, each lasting over half an hour. After more than three months of play therapy, her crying frequency decreased to once every one to two weeks, sometimes even three weeks between episodes. However, her mother still felt troubled because, in her social circle, other children generally calmed down after crying for only 5 to 10 minutes. In contrast, her daughter still needed at least half an hour to gradually transition from her crying spells.   Another child, a shy little boy of the same age,